5 tips for photographing toddlers
Welcoming a newborn into the family is such an amazing and beautiful time, and capturing those early moments through photography is a wonderful way to preserve memories. However, when toddlers are also part of the equation, it can add an extra layer of excitement and challenge to a newborn photography session. I’ve written a few helpful suggestions on how to include and photograph toddlers during a newborn photography session, and hopefully help you capture those precious moments.
Plan Ahead: Before your photography session, it’s a good idea to let your kids know what’s going to happen. Just tell them a friend is coming to take some photos of them and the new baby. Nothing scary, no big deal.
Set expectations: Your little person is going through a huge change, and so will have so many big feelings to go with. Putting a lot of pressure on them to do/act a certain way during the session will probably just go the opposite way you want it to. Often, it’s helpful to just let them lead the way. If they aren’t into the photos, no pressure. I will try later or approach it at different angle. I know you really want to capture your two (or more) loves together, but pressuring your toddler when they are probably already quite delicate with all the changes is not ideal.
Sibling Bonding: Capturing the special bond between a newborn and their older sibling is so precious. I’ll ask your toddler to interact with the newborn, which can create a space for them to engage if they are feeling comfortable. I’ll say things like “ Can you touch your baby’s nose?” or “do you want to give your baby a kiss on the ear?” Or even whispering secrets can create a moment connection that will translate beautifully into the photographs.
Be Patient and Flexible: Toddlers have their own agendas, and it's important to be patient and flexible during the photography session. They may get restless or lose interest quickly, so be prepared to adapt your plans accordingly. I’ll incorporate breaks when needed, allowing the toddler to relax and recharge. Sometimes they are too nervous at first but can warm up by the end of the session.
Bribery: Just throwing this out there. Bribes can work too. Mini marshmallows are my favorite because they don’t leave a mess and are gone in a flash. Just saying. ;)
